Is he interested or is he having fun? We've been dating for 6 weeks. Love is a stong word and only used for illustration here but how can I tell if he's into me or just enjoying a good thing for a while and not considering a future?
He loves me, he loves me not.... Let the facts speak, but which speak the loudest?
LOVES ME: He is happy to meet me every weekend, spend a days/nights together and not date anyone else
LOVES ME NOT: He doesn't ask questions about me or seem interested in trying to find out about me
LOVES ME: He is very physically attracted to me (has told me) and we laugh all the time. I know he enjoys my company.
LOVES ME NOT: He doesn't compliment me
LOVES ME: He genuinely wants to help/advise me when I ask his opinion
LOVES ME NOT: He has told me he is a afraid of commitment and I know he doesn't currently consider me his girlfriend
Am I overreacting? Should I just be honest and talk to him or will that scare him off?
TheJinxy
I think the answer lies in the last "LOVES ME NOT" point and you know it as well I'm guessing. And it also sounds like it won't take much to scare him off either. 6 weeks is a very short time. Maybe you should just go with the flow instead of trying to judge a relationship after 6 weeks which is pretty much impossible anyway. Hope it all works out